Seven truths concealed at the altar of matrimony

Dear beloved congregation,

In today’s sermon, we delve into the unspoken truths that often remain concealed at the altar of matrimony. Marriage is a sacred bond, but it is essential to acknowledge the realities that may not be readily discussed. Let us explore the seven hidden truths that we encounter daily but may not fully understand:

1. “Wedding day is a lie, don’t buy it; Seeing Beyond the Wedding Day Illusion”
   The grandeur of the wedding day may captivate us, but it is crucial not to buy into the falsehoods surrounding it. Marriage is a journey filled with challenges and perseverance. Marriage is akin to a road with inevitable bumps, requiring perseverance in every season. As we celebrate our special day, we must also remain prepared for the challenges that lie beyond. Embrace the joy, but be aware of the lies that may permeate your expectations. While others celebrate your special day, they may not reveal the struggles they face in their own homes. Let us prepare ourselves, celebrate joyously, but also embrace the truth.
2. “Marriage is not for everybody; Embracing the Individual Path”
   Marriage is not meant for everyone, and it is not something to be ashamed of. God’s mercy can change such fate, but it is not a path for everyone. Let us respect and honor the diverse paths individuals may embark upon. The Apostle Paul himself exemplified this truth. We must understand that the mercy of God can transform our destinies, but marriage may not be part of everyone’s journey. Let us release the burden of societal expectations and embrace the unique path God has designed for each of us.
3. “Marry someone with similar goals, dreams, and passions; Finding a Partner with Shared Goals and Dreams”
   When seeking a life partner, it is essential to find someone who shares your goals, dreams, and passions. Look for qualities such as encouragement, support, and a lack of envy in their attitude toward your success. A partner who embraces and uplifts you can help you become the best version of yourself. This may seem daunting, but we can discern the right partner by observing certain qualities. A compatible companion will not be envious of our success but will rather encourage us to become the best version of ourselves. Be patient, dear ones, for the Lord will bring into our lives those who uplift and support our aspirations. In the face of naysayers and negativity, let us stand firm and reject the instigations of envy.

Time will not permit us to delve into the remaining revelations today, but let me offer a glimpse of what is to come.

It is vital to marry someone who shares your goals, dreams, and passions. Prophet Akintunde Akinniyi

Fourthly, we shall explore the truth that our spouses do not complete us. Only God can fulfill the deepest longings of our hearts, and a healthy marriage is built on two whole individuals journeying together.

In addition, we shall unravel the tug-of-war that often characterizes the first year of marriage, equipping ourselves with the tools to navigate this transformative phase.

Also, we will embrace the understanding that there may be more than one person out there who could be a suitable life partner. Let us trust in God’s divine guidance in leading us to the one who aligns perfectly with His purpose for our lives.

Lastly, we shall celebrate the gift of intimacy bestowed upon married couples by God Himself. In a culture that often distorts its meaning, we will explore the beauty and sacredness of sexual intimacy within the covenant of marriage.

Today, as we uncover these hidden truths, let us approach the journey of matrimony with open hearts, realistic expectations, and a reliance on God’s wisdom and guidance. May our marriages be strengthened, and our understanding deepened as we navigate these unspoken realities.