Dear beloved congregation,
Today, we gather again to conclude our sermon on the seven hidden aspects of marriage often left unspoken at the sacred altar of matrimony. Last week, we embarked on this enlightening journey together, delving into the depths of marital truths we must hold dear. Let us open our hearts and minds as we delve into the final four revelations that will guide us on this remarkable journey of holy matrimony.
- Your spouse does not complete you
It is a fallacy to expect our partners to fulfill every aspect of our being, for they are mere mortals, not divine beings. Often, we enter into marriage with the misconception that our partner will fulfill every need within us. Only God can honestly fill the void within our souls. We must recognize that while we can express our desires to God, He alone knows what is best for us. Let us not burden our partners with unrealistic expectations but rather seek to complement and support one another, sharing the joys and burdens of life. - The first year of marriage is a tug-of-war
As we step into that initial year of wedded life, we are faced with unveiling our true selves and discovery of our partner’s intricate nature. Doubts and uncertainties may arise, questioning the choices we have made but fear not. This is a time for growth, patience, and for prayer. Let us not seek solace in external voices, but rather lean on each other and seek guidance from the Almighty. With faith as our shield, we shall overcome any challenge that presents itself in this tumultuous year. - There is more than one person out there for you.
Soul mates are not simply born; they are crafted through love and understanding. We have the power to mold and shape our partners into the individuals we desire. Rather than mocking their weaknesses, let us teach and uplift them if we possess the strength to do so. Comparisons to others only breed discontentment. Cherish the unique qualities your partner possesses, for they, too, have made sacrifices for love’s sake. Embrace the opportunity to learn and grow together, for perfection is a rarity on this earth. Let us embrace our imperfections and learn from one another, as God intended. - Sex is a gift from God, explore it!
Yes, my beloved, I speak to the married couples among us. Let us not shy away from this topic that some may consider taboo. Our Creator did not despise sexual intimacy; it was the influence of darkness that tarnished its beauty. Do not be deceived by hypocrisy; do not deny yourselves the pleasures and bonding that this gift brings. For it is not solely for procreation but for the unification of hearts, the relief of tensions, and the delight of intimacy within the sanctity of marriage.
Time will not permit us to delve into the remaining revelations today, but let me offer a glimpse of what is to come.
Cherish the unique qualities your partner possesses, for they, too, have made sacrifices for love’s sake. Prophet Akintunde Akinniyi
As we draw this sermon to a close, let us remember the essence of our time together. Do not allow the devil to sow seeds of discord in your family. Stay steadfast, my brethren, and let your prayers be the pillar that upholds your union. May the love of God permeate every corner of your home, bringing harmony, joy, and peace.
May the blessings of the Almighty God be upon each and every one of you. Shalom.
May God bless your ministry Baba Májẹ̀mú sir. Very insightful.
Amen! Thank you so much